Leaving a Legacy

Contemporary portrait of a woman who engages with the viewer thoughtfully

I first met Sandy in a scrapbooking store when our oldest children were in preschool (more than ten years ago.) I overheard her conversation with someone else and I wondered if her son might be my daughter’s preschool friend. We ended up talking and confirming that our children were in the same class. And then we bonded over scrapbooking (one way of leaving a legacy) and our preschool-aged kiddos.

Scrapbooking was big at the time, which was right before I really started to learn photography. I was all in. I had the paper, some punches, stickers, stamps, buttons, Silhouette . . . you name it. At some point, I attended a scrapbooking weekend retreat when a question came up about the most important factor in making a good scrapbook page. Someone answered that it was the layers on a page or some other design element. And I remember thinking, no, the most important component of a great scrapbook is the photographs! The photos are the emotions and memories. They are what the scrapbook is all about–the reason for the scrapbook in the first place! The papers and embellishments can make the pages pretty and give them dimension, but ultimately, they frame the stories told by the photographs. The people in the scrapbooks make the scrapbooks what they are.

And while we’re talking photographs, I wonder how many mothers include themselves in their children’s scrapbooks. They have pictures of all the other family members, but oftentimes the moms are the ones behind the camera taking the pictures. So when their children go through their photo albums, reliving their younger years, a huge chunk of their lives is missing from those books.

Personal experience has taught me that after we leave this world, (and even while we’re still in it) our loved ones look for photos of us. They smile and laugh and cry as they remember all the times–regardless of the quality of the pictures. And they also look for “a good picture,” one where your face isn’t dark or blurry or your expression awkward. They try to find an image that characterizes you in the best way possible. They want to show your features and personality to the world and they want it to be clear, flattering, and emblematic of you.

I hope these images of Sandy are a part of her legacy. She is a gorgeous woman with the most welcoming smile. She is also a brilliant and caring physician and an independent thinker. Perhaps most importantly, she is a mother setting the example for her children. I hope that someday, her children look back at these and recognize themselves in her. Imagine these photographs (and more) in an album or framed on the wall. I envision her children smiling to themselves as they think of their mom and talk about her–maybe to their own children.

Headshot of a woman who is resting her chin in her hand.
Legacy photograph of a beautiful mother.
Contemporary portrait of a woman
Contemporary portrait of a woman
Vanity-Fair-style portrait of a woman sitting in a chair and letting her arm rest on the back of it.
Legacy headshot featuring a friendly smile.
Contemporary portrait of a confident woman with a friendly smile.
A woman sweeps her hair out of her face during her styled photo session.
A confident and strong Indian woman looks powerful as she adjusts her bracelets and engages with the viewer.
Legacy portrait of an Indian woman wearing a sherwani against a gold backdrop.
An Indian woman looks thoughtful as she engages with the viewer.
Contemporary portrait of an Indian woman wearing a sherwani.
Legacy headshot of a gorgeous Indian woman wearing a sherwani
Legacy portrait of a gorgeous Indian woman wearing a sherwani.

Pretty in Pink

Pink on pink was the theme of this shoot. And I swear it was planned before I’d heard anything of the Barbie movie that was due to be released in the summer of 2023.

And although Ella is certainly pretty in pink, I find that it does her no justice to compare her to Andie, the protagonist of the classic flick, anymore than comparing her to Barbie. She dazzled in her pink prom dress. The mood was lighthearted and fun and she was game to let me experiment.

Ella is a girl who follows her heart. She’s an athlete whose soccer skills could have taken her to the next level had she chosen to go down that road. But she didn’t–because she had other interests she wanted to pursue. She’s a young woman who embraces new experiences and new possibilities. I don’t think she’s fearless, but she seizes opportunities and makes the most of them. Nobody can predict the future, but it seems impossible that hers won’t be a bright one.

I have only seen trailers for Barbie and it has been ages since I watched Pretty in Pink, so I can’t tell you much about either of the main characters of those movies. I can tell you that Ella does look pretty gorgeous in her pink prom dress. And since this shoot she has moved on to college, gradually working her way toward the “Real World.” If the past is any indication of the future, she will find her way around it just fine.

If you’d like a themed photo session, or maybe a shoot in your prom dress, please contact me! I have all kinds of ideas and am always open to more.

Portrait of a high school senior girl with a pink heart in the background.
Silhouette of a high school senior girl blowing a kiss on a background featuring a pink heart.
Portrait of a high school senior girl looking pretty in pink.
Closeup portrait of a high school senior girl in her prom dress, showcasing shades of pink.
Portrait of a high school senior girl wearing her pink prom dress, set against a pink backdrop.
Pink on pink. This high school senior girl looks off camera and smiles knowingly.
Exploring pink for this beautiful high school senior wearing her prom dress for portraits.
A more serious look for this high school senior girl in her prom dress.
Yay! This girl is a senior and ready for prom!
Confidence in a high school senior girl wearing her prom dress.
Portrait of a high school senior girl dancing in her pink prom dress.
Pink style with attitude. A high school senior girl poses in her prom dress.
A high school senior girl emerges from the shadows during her photo session, highlighted by a slice of light.
Styled portrait of a high school senior girl wearing her pink prom dress, dancing on a pink background.
Beauty portrait of a high school senior girl.
Beauty portrait of a high school senior girl wearing her pink prom dress.

Portrait of an Artist

Headshot of an artist holder some of her paint brushes.

Artist or architect?

Both.

Becca does not currently work as an architect, but many of the same creative instincts that drove her to that career earlier in her life still play a role as she shifts the use of her talents to painting still lifes. Architects are artists. She just happens to be one whose expertise in designing structures translates well to painting canvases.

Becca, the artist and architect, mother and teacher, creates. She brings ideas that live in the imagination to life in the material world. Sometimes her art is practical and functional. Sometimes it pleases the senses. Oftentimes it achieves both.

Incorporating elements of design to make a functional and aesthetically gratifying structure is not completely different from applying the same principles to paint a canvas. Whether painting, designing buildings, writing, composing music, sculpting, cooking, or otherwise creating, the artist starts with a plan. The plan takes shape as she outlines her subject and then gradually fills in details. She uses line, shape, dimension, detail, texture, and color to give her work substance and meaning–and to make it her own.

Becca sees the extraordinary in the ordinary and appreciates the beauty which accompanies her in everyday life. Inspiration flows from a need to express the feelings generated by something–some sight, sound, action, or memory. When it strikes, a barrage of ideas compels the artist to make something. A blank canvas (whether literal or figurative) can be intimidating, but it can also be a welcome opening to convey a message or story. Ultimately, every piece is inspired by meaning and in turn means something to Becca.

Becca is an artist who can apply her skills, ingenuity, and imagination in multiple disciplines. Though many people are familiar with her paintings and her background as an architect, conversations with her reveal knowledge and an artistic bent in other aspects of her life as well. She is the quintessential artist, with appreciation for subtleties, the finer points of beauty and design, and the talent to eloquently translate that to a work on canvas.

You can learn more about Becca and her work on social media or see some of her pieces in person at Circa Arts Gallery.

Painterly headshot of an artist
Portrait of an artist, readying to start on a blank canvas.
Headshot of an artist, a painter
Headshot of an artist
Portrait of a painter approaching her blank canvas.
Portrait of a painter, holding some of her paint brushes.
Portrait of a painter
Portrait of a painter, touching up her work on a canvas
Portrait of a painter
Headshot of an artist
An artist poses for her portrait with one of her paintings.

Shine a Light On It

Among the masses of people in this world, some humans catch my eye, tickle my funny bone, or otherwise make me feel that I must photograph them. They are individuals who own a special something that defies words. They remind me that people are miracles–and that the uniqueness of each of the billions of people on Earth is itself a miracle. There are infinite combinations of looks, temperaments, talents, and quirks. And each of those can take on a different appearance when seen in different light. Sometimes features are hidden in the shadows, only appreciated when we shine a light on them.

This young lady is one of those people that inspires me. When I met her, she seemed a bit unsure about being photographed. But she has an air about her and a style that is all her own. She doesn’t pretend to feel something she doesn’t feel or to want something she doesn’t want. She showed a lot of energy at the beginning of the shoot, hamming it up for the camera and striking amazing poses. As time went on, she took on a more subdued frame of mind, which fit her personality just as well. When she held her violin, she went into a violin-playing world. This girl brought it all, making no attempts to hide any aspect of her personality. She needed only allow the light to hit her to show it off.

In his book, The Great Divorce, C.S. Lewis talked about glimpses of Heaven seen on Earth and how an artist could find success on Earth because he was able to paint those glimpses. His talents highlighted these little bits of Heaven so that others could appreciate them as well. (Full disclosure: That was not the point of the conversation in the book. But the thought resonated deeply with me.)

Photography is the medium that gives me opportunities to capture everyday moments and people– everyday miracles. On this day, I felt enamored, delighted, moved, and even surprised at times. And I wanted to create images that tangibly bundle those feelings for her parents. These photos are a way for them to stop time and appreciate their daughter and the way she makes them feel. They can turn to them later on–as she changes and they change. In ten years, they will see the special qualities she held at age 12 and find them still there at age 22–though they may take on different appearances in different light.

A preteen girl shows her light and funny side as she plays to the camera during her studio photo session.
Serious studio photograph of a tween girl, looking serious in her glasses.
Studio photograph of a tween girl. Her rests her arm casually on the side of a chair.
Photograph of a tween girl  who slouches on a chair, her legs hanging over the arm of the chair.
Black and white photograph of a preteen girl who plays to the camera during her studio photo session.
A preteen girl lets her light shine as she strikes a pose during a studio photo session.
Studio photograph of a preteen girl who strikes an angular pose during her photo session.
Black and white photograph of a preteen girl who rests her chin thoughtfully on her folded hands.
Studio photograph of a preteen girl who rests her chin thoughtfully on her folded hands.
A beauty light setup showcases the natural beauty of this smart preteen girl.
Black and white closeup photograph of a preteen girl resting her chin on the end of her violin.
Studio photograph of a preteen girl resting her chin on the end of her violin.
Studio photograph of a young violin player whose face is framed by her instrument.
Black and white studio photograph of a young female violin player whose face is framed by her instrument.
A young female violin player clutches her instrument as she is bathed in soft light and engages with the viewer.
Black and white photograph of a young female violin player who clutches her instrument as she is bathed in soft light and engages with the viewer.
Black and white photograph of a young female violin player standing in the spotlight as she plays.
Studio photograph of a young female violin player standing in the spotlight as she plays.
A young girl faces the light as she holds her violin at her side in a contemplative manner.

Destination on the Way to Destiny

Isabelle is a studious girl, a lover of books. One of her favorites is The Alchemist, a novel about a young shepherd who sets out to find a treasure, his destiny, that he knows about through a dream. He sells his sheep to fund a journey to find the treasure, encountering several obstacles and detours along the way. He reaches the pyramids, where he had been told to dig for his treasure, only to discover that it is not there. Alas, he has more traveling to do. And eventually he ends up right back in his homeland, where his treasure indeed awaits him.

The book is about an odyssey, listening to your heart, and finding happiness in pursuing your destiny. In doing so, one recognizes omens and listens for the directions in which they point. Destiny is not reached without a journey and the journey is often long and arduous. Sometimes you set out on one route, but have to alter it. Along the way, trials force you to hone new skills; the people you meet along the way change you. Innumerable experiences teach you about yourself little by little.

The journey to high school graduation parallels that of the shepherd boy. At times you feel you must be so close, but then realize that the final destination is still so far away. And sometimes the people you meet support you in your travels, while others get in the way. Along the road, you discover new abilities, and new interests. And you practice the perseverance it takes to get you to that walk across the stage. Then you finally hold your diploma in your hand. But as the applause fades, you take a deep breath and contemplate the next step. You realize that there’s more work to do, more to accomplish, more people to meet, more to learn. You have reached the intended destination, the graduation pyramids, but your destiny still awaits.

It’s no surprise that The Alchemist is one of Isabelle’s favorite books. Like the shepherd, Isabelle is thoughtful and full of hope and promise. She listens to the people and the world around her as she strives to understand where she is going in it. Isabelle loves to read and she is a deep thinker. Her interests and talents are broad: She cares deeply about the environment and also enjoys singing and performing. She is articulate in what she cares about and confident in her decisions. She draws upon these many gifts as she continues her journey to fulfilling her destiny.

Most of all, like the shepherd and the book itself, Isabelle inspires. Her friendliness, positive attitude, and willingness to navigate obstacles will undoubtedly propel her along the road to her destiny. May she always listen to her heart and mind the signs that guide her in the right direction.

A high school senior girl poses with a book on a layered backdrop in studio during her photo session.
A high school senior girl poses with a stack of books on a layered backdrop in studio during her photo session.
A high school senior girl poses with a book on a layered backdrop in studio during her photo session. One of her favorite books is The Alchemist, a novel about achieving one's destiny.
A studious high school senior girl poses with a stack of books on her head on a layered backdrop in studio during her photo session.
A studious high school senior girl poses with stacks of books on a layered backdrop in studio during her photo session.  One of her favorite books is The Alchemist, a novel about achieving one's destiny.
Photograph of a high school senior girl in studio.
Beauty setup for a high school senior girl during her photo session.
Beauty setup for a high school senior girl during her photo session.
Beauty setup for a high school senior girl during her photo session.
A high school senior girl smiles broadly during her senior photo session.
High school senior session for this girl with a love for performing.
A high school senior girl poses with a ladder and an old fresnel light during her photo session in studio.
A high school senior girl poses with an old fresnel light during her photo session in studio.
A high school senior girl with a love of performing poses with an old fresnel light during her photo session in studio.
Black and white photograph of a high school senior girl with a love of performing posing with an old fresnel light during her photo session in studio.
A high school senior girl with a love of performing poses with an old fresnel light during her photo session in studio.
A high school senior girl with a love of performing poses with an old fresnel light during her photo session in studio.
Black and white photograph of a high school senior girl with a love of performing posing with an old fresnel light during her photo session in studio.

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